Friday, July 23, 2010

once can cross an ocean
without his legs but
cannot cross his life
without wetting his eyes.
"THAT LIFE DEAR"

STORY OF A PROFESSIONAL

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.
SON: "Daddy, may I ask u a question?"
DAD: Yeah sure, what is it?
SON: Daddy, how much do u make an hour?
DAD: That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing? the man said angrily.
SON: I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?
DAD: If u must know, I make Rs.1000 an hour.
SON: "Oh," the little boy replied, with his head down. "Daddy, may I please borrow Rs.500?"

The father was furious, "If the only reason you asked that is so u can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed.The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.500. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
"Are you asleep, son?" He asked.

Son: "No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy.
Daddy:"It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on u.. Here's the Rs.500 you asked for."

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. "Oh, thank you daddy!" He yelled.Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
"Why do you want more money if you already have some?" the father grumbled.

Son:"Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied.
"Daddy, I have Rs.1000 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.





It's just a short reminder to all working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that Rs.1000 worth of your time with someone you love.

true love

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
Maybe we have to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back. Don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn't, be sure it grew in yours.
There are things you'd love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear from, but don't be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.
Never say good-bye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, never say you don't love a person anymore if you can't let go.
Love comes to those who still hope although they've been disappointed, to those who still believe although they've been betrayed, need to love those who still love although they've been hurt before.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, in the end it fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.
Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to all the things you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy and enough money to buy me gifts.
Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person too.
A careless word may kindle strife, a cruel word may wreck a life, a timely word may level stress, a loving word may heal and bless.
The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twist them with our own image otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
Love is an unusual game. There are either two winners or none. If I could reinvent the alphabet, I would put U and I together.

life...............................

life is not about riding BMW & Mercedes....
But about 3 Friends on a single vehicle Riding round the city...

Its not about 75rs coffee at a CCD....
But many Friends together sharing 10rs Dairy Milk and still enjoying...

Life is not a boasting about a 350rs movie ticket...
But about a few friends buying 50rs ticket & wondering ki is bar popcorn kaun khailega...

Life is not about eating at every expensive Restaurant...
But about a few friends, a stove, late night & boiling Maggi...

Life is not about 1.5 ton AC in 45 degrees...
But about few friends lying on Roof Top in Summer Nights gazing at the Stars & talking about all Naughty things they did in past...


LIFE is Valued Moments!
We must Learn that Resource based Constraints have no effects on Happiness ....

The thing is we must learn how 2 enjoy LIFE.....

love

When you love someone so deep inside,
It seems like it's so easy to hide.
You've loved him for so very long,
You would think he could do no wrong.

Every day you would hope and pray,
That he would always stay this way.
He treated you like you should be treated,
You thought your life was finally completed.

You thought your love was growing true,
And then one day it was all so blue.
He started putting you down and it hurt,
You thought all you were to him was dirt.

He started ignoring you and you wondered why,
All you wanted to do was curl up and die.
You thought your relationship would never end,
But that was all so fake and pretend.

One night he was so sweet to you,
You thought all those things were maybe untrue,
Two days later he was back the same,
You thought you were the one to blame.

He thought the relationship was getting too serious
And that you had become a little too curious.
By this time you knew it wouldn't last,
All the nice things he said were in the past.

You thought that you would marry him some day,
But this time God wanted to get his way.
You wanted things back how they were before,
But you knew this couldn't happen anymore.

UNTIL WE MEET,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, NICE POEM



Until we meet
My nights will be a little colder
My days a little shorter
My heart will beat a little less rapid
Until we meet
I know that my arms will be empty
My mind hurting from the constant thought of you
Minutes will seem to be hours
Hours will seem to be months
While months will seem like eternity
Until we meet
The stars in the sky will not affect me
with its gleaming sparkles of life

Until I am gazing at them in your arms
And the food that I eat will not be as fulfilling and nourishing
Until it is you that I share the my food with
And Until we meet
I will not feel whole
My world will seem incomplete
Until that wonderful day
When our eyes make first contact
And our bodies and souls collide in blissful whirlwind
The words will roll off my tongue like a sweet love song
"Hello, my love, I couldn't wait to meet you.

U & I NICE ONE



Friendship is something to hold on to
But for me that's not the case
Cause I don't feel I need to keep
Something that can't be erased

I am sure of what I have
Cause with you I have no doubt
For what we've built, can't ever fail
It's what I care about

I find it hard to describe
This thing that we share
Especially when there's nothing else
That ever could compare

Others always know
That together we will be
For there can never be another
"Tani and Kerrie"

Those two words, known all over
Might as well be one
Cause without a Kerrie, there is no Tani
I'm sorry, it just can't be done

For you're the "U", and I'm the "S"
And forever that will be
Cause together we make "US", and so
YOU COMPLETE ME!!

SALTY COFFEE....................

He met her at a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him.

At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, and she thought to herself, "Please, let me go home..."

Suddenly he asked the waiter, "Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee." Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously, "Why you have this hobby?" He replied, "When I was a little boy, I lived near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there." While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home... Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family.


That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they were living the happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said, "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life's lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything... Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth, I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste... But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again."

Her tears made the letter totally wet. Someday, someone asked her, "What's the taste of salty coffee?" She replied, "It's sweet."

Pass this to everyone because love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but understand, not to hear but to listen, not to let go but HOLD ON!!!!

LOVE HURTS


Love hurts all the time its part of romance
I love you from the bottom of my heart
My heart is red when I’m with you
My heart turns blue if something goes wrong
I feel like dying when we are apart

I love you, you should know this
I will always love you forever and always
It feels like we were meant to be together
We were happy together
It used to be just you and me

I love you from the bottom of my heart
Are we meant to be together
We used to have loads of laughs
We did everything together
I will always love you forever and for always
I will never give up on finding you

I want you back
I want you back
Why won’t you come back to me
What has happened between us
We were happy together
I thought are love dint die
Romance hurts all the time
Its part of growing up

Love hurts
I want you back
I want you back
Where have you gone
Where have you gone
What happened between us
Baby you were the one I wanted
ഏകാന്തമായ കാത്തിരിപ്പിനൊടുവില്‍ നനുത്ത ഒരു പുഞ്ജിരി സമ്മാനിച്ച്‌ കൊണ്ട് നീ എന്റെ ജീവിതത്തിലേക്ക് കടന്നു വന്നു . , വറ്റാത്ത ഒരു അരുവി പോലെ കണ്ണു നീരെന്‍ കവിള്‍ തടങ്ങളെ തഴുഗുമ്പോള്‍ ഞാന്‍ അറിയുന്നു .... ഞാന്‍ നിന്നെ പ്രണയിച്ചിരുന്നു










എല്ലാം മറക്കണമെന്നും പഴയപോലെ സുഹൃത്തുക്കളായി കഴിയാമെന്നും കല്യാണത്തിന് തീര്‍ച്ചയായും വരണമെന്നും ഞാന്‍ എത്ര തവണ ആവര്‍ത്തിച്ചു പറഞ്ഞതാണ് . എന്നിട്ടും എന്തിനാണ് ചെക്കാ .. കല്യാണ തലേന്ന് ,മറിഞ്ഞു വീണൊരു കസ്സെരക്ക് മുകളില്‍ ഒറ്റമുണ്ടില്‍ നീ തൂങ്ങിയാടിയത് ...?

Thursday, May 20, 2010

hiiiiiiiiiiiiii

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii my name is Arun, am new to blog spot, just started my blog today. the nick name name saghu is given to me by my college mates . i was very left liberal in my political view on those days, so they reduced the word ' saghav '(comrade) into saghu.
I had done my b tech degree in cuiet (calicut university institute of engineering & tech).
actually i just dont want to remember about my class. only thing i like to remember about that place is the days i spend with my friends. My close friends in that campus are Ajin, Sajin, Rayees, Rihas, Ajeesh (appappan), Anish, Arun varghese (Varky) ,Sathish babu (Palu), venu ..................,
Our room was a little heaven, full time enjoymentand enjoyment.The only thing we forget to do is study.
All of them, including me had lots of back papers due to lack of study, what ever it is we can leave it, coz am not interested to talk abt study,i had changed a lot from my school days, when i was in school, i was very much interested in reading books. it may be novels,poems,.....................
the only thing in my mind was reading, and reading. there is a books library near my house. samajam library. i had used to take books from there. I had read lots of books on that time. some of them are ramayana , mahabharath ,mahabhagavath , thousand and one nights, olivertwist, huckle berifin, tomsoyer , Sherlock holmes,communism in latin america, pathummayude aadu, brigadier stories, das capital , etc, I was so interested in reading books on that time, then slowly i had left the touch with the books and now a days am reading only news paper. now there is an electrical problem, the current is gone , i will continue with it later ,bye